TY - JOUR T1 - The Predictor Relations between Values, Love Attitudes and Forgiveness Levels of the Married Couples TT - The Predictor Relations between Values, Love Attitudes and Forgiveness Levels of the Married Couples AU - Safi, Havva AU - Dilmaç, Bülent PY - 2019 DA - June JF - Research on Education and Psychology PB - Bülent DİLMAÇ WT - DergiPark SN - 2602-3733 SP - 53 EP - 68 VL - 3 IS - 1 LA - en AB - The aim of the presentresearch was to reveal the predictor relations between values, love attitudesand forgiveness levels of the married couples and to test a model created fromthis relationship. The present researchwas carried out in accordance with relational screening model which is asub-type of general screening model. The research sample consists of 347marries couples including 276 women and 71 men who were selected throughrandomized set sampling method among married couples living in Konya between2017 and 2018. In the process of data collection; Dilmaç, Arıcak and Cesur Values ​​Scaledeveloped to determine the values ​​of married couple, Love Attitude Scale wasused to detect love attitudes of the married couples; the Trait Forgiveness Scale adopted intoTurkish by Akin and Saricam in 2013 was used to determine forgiveness levels.The predictor relations on values, love attitudes and forgiveness levels of themarried couples were analysed through AMOS 16 Program according to"Structural Equation Model". It is concluded that the value variableappears to be the most important independent variable affecting the forgivenesslevel. Another finding of the present study revealed that the most importantindependent variable affecting the love attitude is the value of the marriedcouples. Furthermore, the secondary most important variable which affects thelove attitude was the forgiveness variable. KW - Values KW - Love Attitudes KW - Forgiveness CR - Açıkel, M. (2013). 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