Predictors of Fear of Intimacy among University Students

Year 2023, Volume: 2023 Issue: 20, 41 - 63, 29.03.2023

Elifnur Barış , Özkan Çıkrıkçı , Neslihan Çıkrıkçı

https://doi.org/10.46778/goputeb.1218724

Abstract

The study, which aims to examine the association between fear of intimacy, irrational thoughts and alexithymia in university students, was carried out in a correlational design based on a quantitative research approach. To collect the data, Fear-of-Intimacy Scale (FIS), Toronto Alexithymia Scale (TAS-20) and Irrational Beliefs Test (IBT) were used. The data were analysed with SPSS software. Pearson Product Moments Correlation Coefficient was used to examine the associations among fear of intimacy, irrational thoughts and alexithymia. The result of correlation analysis showed that there is a statistically significant association between fear of intimacy and alexithymia. Hierarchical regression analysis was applied to determine the original contribution of irrational thoughts and alexithymia in the explanation of fear of intimacy. In the first step, the predictive strength of irrational thoughts, need for approval, high expectations, tendency to blame and fear of intimacy were examined. The first regression model was significant and accounted for 6.8% of the total variance of fear of intimacy. It was determined that the tendency to blame and helplessness contributed significantly to the model. In the second step, alexithymia was added to the model with sub-dimensions. The second regression model was significant and accounted for 23.5% of the total variance of fear of intimacy. When the R2 change values were examined, the original contribution of the sub-dimensions of alexithymia to the total variance of fear of intimacy was 16.7%.

Keywords

Fear of Intimacy, Irrational Belief, Alexithymia

Üniversite Öğrencilerinde Yakınlık Korkusunun Yordayıcıları

Abstract

Üniversite öğrencilerinde yakınlık korkusu, akılcı olmayan düşünceler ve aleksitimi arasındaki ilişkiyi incelemeyi hedefleyen çalışma nicel araştırma yaklaşımına dayalı olarak ilişkisel desende gerçekleştirilmiştir. Çalışmanın verilerini toplamak amacı ile Yakınlık Korkusu Ölçeği (YKÖ), Toronto Aleksitimi Ölçeği (TAS-20) ve Akılcı Olmayan İnançlar Testi kullanılmıştır. Araştırmada elde edilen veriler SPSS yazılımı ile analiz edilmiştir. Yakınlık korkusu, akılcı olmayan düşünceler ve aleksitimi arasındaki ilişkiyi incelemek amacıyla Pearson Momentler Çarpımı Korelasyon Katsayısı Tekniği kullanılmıştır. Korelasyon analizi bulguları, yakınlık korkusu ile aleksitimi arasında istatistiksel olarak anlamlı bir ilişkinin olduğunu göstermektedir. Yakınlık korkusunun açıklanmasında akılcı olmayan düşünceler ve aleksitiminin özgün katkısının belirlenebilmesi için Hiyerarşik Regresyon Analizi uygulanmıştır. Birinci adımda akılcı olmayan düşünceler alt boyutlarından onay ihtiyacı, yüksek beklentiler, suçlama eğilimi ve çaresizliğin yakınlık korkusunu yordayıcı gücü incelenmiştir. Birinci regresyon modeli anlamlıdır ve yakınlık korkusu toplam varyasının %6.8’ini açıklamaktadır. Akılcı olmayan düşünceler alt boyutlarından suçlama eğilimi ve çaresizliğin modele katkısının anlamlı olduğu belirlenmiştir. İkinci adımda modele aleksitimi, alt boyutları eklenmiştir. İkinci regresyon modeli anlamlıdır ve yakınlık korkusu toplam varyansının %23.5’ini açıklamaktadır. R2 değişim değerleri incelendiğinde aleksitimi alt boyutlarının yakınlık korkusu toplam varyansına özgün katkısı %16.7’dir.

Keywords

Yakınlık Korkusu, Akılcı Olmayan Düşünce, Aleksitimi

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