THE OTHER SIDE OF THE COIN: SMARTPHONES IN ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS OF YOUTH

Yıl 2017, Cilt: 16 Sayı: 63, 1400 - 1415, 06.10.2017

Esra Cizmeci

https://doi.org/10.17755/esosder.294833

Cited By: 1

Öz

Smartphones have invaded the daily lives of all
the people around the world in such a way that they have the power of shaping
interpersonal relationships. Although this is valid for people from all ages, college-aged
youth use smartphones more than other age groups, therefore their relationships
are affected more from these devices. Through fifteen in-depth interviews, this
study demonstrates how use of smartphones shape romantic relationships of the
college-aged youth in Turkey. Findings reveal that smartphones are an essential
part of the relationships of today’s youth because of internet-based
text-messaging applications, video call applications and social media platforms.
Beside helping romantic relationships to start and proceed, interview results
suggest that smartphones raise trust issues and create fragile relationships
through attachment anxiety. These findings are essentially important for the
sake of future marriages and families that today’s youth will establish, and
this is the first qualitative study on the subject in Turkey.

Anahtar Kelimeler

smartphone, mobile phone, romantic relationships, youth, attachment anxiety

MADALYONUN ÖBÜR YÜZÜ: GENÇLERİN DUYGUSAL İLİŞKİLERİNDE AKILLI TELEFONLARIN YERİ

Öz

Akıllı telefonlar dünyanın her yerindeki
insanların gündelik yaşamlarını öylesine işgal etti ki, kişilerarası ilişkileri
bile biçimlendirecek hale geldiler. Bu durum tüm yaş gruplarındaki bireyler
için geçerli hale gelse de üniversite çağındaki gençler akıllı telefonları daha
fazla kullanmakta ve bu sebeple bu yaş grubunun ilişkileri akıllı telefonlardan
daha fazla etkilenmektedir. Bu çalışma, 15 derinlemesine görüşme aracılığıyla
akıllı telefonların Türkiye’deki gençlerin duygusal ilişkilerini nasıl
biçimlendirdiğini ortaya koymaktadır. Bulgulara göre internete dayalı
mesajlaşma uygulamaları, görüntülü arama özelliği ve sosyal medya
platformlarını barındırması sebebiyle akıllı telefonlar günümüz gençliğinin
ilişkilerinin elzem bir parçasıdır. Görüşme sonuçlarına göre; akıllı telefonlar
gençlerin duygusal ilişkilerinin başlaması ve ilerlemesine yardımcı olmanın
yanında, aynı zamanda güven sorunları oluşturarak, bağlanma kaygısı
aracılığıyla ilişkilerin bitmesine sebep olacak derecede kırılganlaştırmaktadır.
Bu da gelecekte gençlerin yapacağı evliliklerin ve kuracakları ailelerin
sağlamlığı ile ilgili önemle dikkate alınması gereken bir durumdur ve bu
çalışma, konu ile ilgili Türkiye’de yapılan ilk nitel çalışmadır.

Anahtar Kelimeler

akıllı telefon, cep telefonu, duygusal ilişkiler, gençlik, bağlanma kaygısı

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