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The Impact of Loss of a Parent and Having a Sibling on Self Psychology

Year 2015, , 1 - 12, 01.06.2015
https://doi.org/10.31682/ayna.470666

Abstract

Psychotherapeutic approaches have different perspectives on the difficulties of the development of the individual’s self-esteem. Kohut believed that in order to establish a healthy sense of self, people need to experience idealized, grandiose and twinship experiences in the early years of life. For this, the child’s idealization, grandiose and twinship self-object needs must be met by his caregivers or environment. It is the massive or premature interruption (such as loss) with his self-object relationship in the early stages of his life that makes the person problematic later. Moreover, Mitchell focuses on the loss of the self-worth through siblings or peers in childhood. She thinks that without the acceptance of the loss of uniqueness the child feels hatred toward its sibling or peers. In order to transform that hate into love the child should understand that he is in sequence with others. In other words, he should understand that he is different from his siblings as being ‘other’ as well as he is ordinary as others. Mitchell names this sequencing as mother’s law.              In this article, the difficulties experienced as psychogenic substance abuse and anger problems were addressed in terms of self-psychology. This work was evaluated through Kohut’s view on self-psychology and Mitchell’s view on siblings’ role on self via a case example. Moreover, when considering a case like this, the role of the therapist was emphasized in relation to Kohut’s thoughts on transference relationship.

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  • Geist, R. (2008). Mini-Analyses and Idealizing Transferences: Autobiographical Reflections on the Development of a Therapeutic Model. International Journal of Psychoanalytic Self Psychology, 3, 320–331.
  • Hershberg, S.G. (2011). Narcissus Revisited: A Link Between Mirroring and Twinship Selfobject Experiences—A Discussion of Nancy VanDerHeide’s, “A Dynamic Systems View of the Transformational Process of Mirroring”. International Journal of Psychoanalytic Self Psychology, 6, 58–66.
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  • Kohut, H. (1981), On empathy. In: The Search for the Self: Selected Writings of Heinz Kohut: 1978–1981, Vol. 4, ed. P. H. Ornstein. Madison, CT: International Universities Press, pp. 525–535.
  • Kohut, H. (1987a). The Separate Developmental Lines of Narcissism and Object Love. In M. Elson. (Ed.), The Kohut Seminars: on self psychology and psychotherapy with adolescents and young adults (pp.18-30). USK.
  • Kohut, H. (1987b). Early Stages in the Formation of Self-Esteem. In M. Elson. (Ed.), The Kohut Seminars: on self psychology and psychotherapy with adolescents and young adults (pp.31-46). USK.
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  • Kohut, H. (1987e). The Admiring Selfobject and the Idealized Selfobject. In M. Elson. (Ed.), The Kohut Seminars: on self psychology and psychotherapy with adolescents and young adults (pp.77-94). USK.
  • Kohut, H. (1987f). The Acquisition of Internalized Values, Ideals, and Goals. In M. Elson. (Ed.), The Kohut Seminars: on self psychology and psychotherapy with adolescents and young adults (pp.95-109). USK.
  • Lee, R.R., Martin, J.C. (1991). Psychotherapy After Kohut, A Textbook of Self Psychology. New York: Hillsdale.
  • Mitchell, J. (2011). Kardeşler: Cinsellik ve Şiddet (P. Padar, Çev. & B.C. Yılmazyiğit). İstanbul: Bilgi Ünv. (Original work published 1940).
  • Mitchell, S.K., Black, M.K. (2012). Freud ve Sonrası, Modern Psikanalitik Düşüncenin Tarihi (K. Eğrilmez, Çev.). İstanbul: Bilgi Ünv. (Original work published 1995).
  • Philips, T. (2011). Mirroring and What Happens Next. International Journal of Psychoanalytic Self Psychology, 6, 50–57.
  • Winnicott, D.W. (1977). The Piggle. London: The Hogarth Press.
  • Togashi, K. (2009). A New Dimension of Twinship Selfobject Experience and Transference. International Journal of Psychoanalytic Self Psychology, 4, 21–39.

Ebeveyn Kaybı Ve Kardeş Doğumunun Kendilik Psikolojisi Üzerine Etkisi

Year 2015, , 1 - 12, 01.06.2015
https://doi.org/10.31682/ayna.470666

Abstract

Bu çalışmada psikojenik madde kullanımı ve öfke problemleri olarak yaşanan zorlukların kişinin kendilik psikolojisi açısından ele alınması amaçlanmıştır. Çalışma Kohut’un kendilik-psikolojisi kuramı ve Mitchell’in kardeşlerin self üzerindeki rolü üzerine düşünceleri temelinde bir vaka üzerinden ele alınmıştır. Ayrıca böyle bir vaka ile karşılaşıldığında Kohut’un aktarım kuramı çerçevesinde terapistin rolünün ne olması gerektiği üzerinde durulmuştur

References

  • Cataldo, L.M. (2007). Religious Experience and the Transformation of Narcissism: Kohutian Theory and the Life of St. Francis of Assisi. Journal of Religion and Health, 46, 527-540.
  • Christopher, J.C., Bickhard, M.H., Lambeth, G.S. (2001). Otto Kernberg’s Object Relations Theory, A Metepsychological Critique. Theory & Psychology, 11 (5), 687-711.
  • Edward, J. (2013). Sibling Discord: A Force for Growth and Conflict. Clinical Social Work Journal, 41,77–83.
  • Freud, S. (1914). On Narcissism. Standart Edition, 14: 69-102. London: Hogarth Press, 1957.
  • Geist, R. (2008). Mini-Analyses and Idealizing Transferences: Autobiographical Reflections on the Development of a Therapeutic Model. International Journal of Psychoanalytic Self Psychology, 3, 320–331.
  • Hershberg, S.G. (2011). Narcissus Revisited: A Link Between Mirroring and Twinship Selfobject Experiences—A Discussion of Nancy VanDerHeide’s, “A Dynamic Systems View of the Transformational Process of Mirroring”. International Journal of Psychoanalytic Self Psychology, 6, 58–66.
  • Kohut, H. (1977). The restoration of the self. International Universities Press, New York.
  • Kohut, H. (1981), On empathy. In: The Search for the Self: Selected Writings of Heinz Kohut: 1978–1981, Vol. 4, ed. P. H. Ornstein. Madison, CT: International Universities Press, pp. 525–535.
  • Kohut, H. (1987a). The Separate Developmental Lines of Narcissism and Object Love. In M. Elson. (Ed.), The Kohut Seminars: on self psychology and psychotherapy with adolescents and young adults (pp.18-30). USK.
  • Kohut, H. (1987b). Early Stages in the Formation of Self-Esteem. In M. Elson. (Ed.), The Kohut Seminars: on self psychology and psychotherapy with adolescents and young adults (pp.31-46). USK.
  • Kohut, H. (1987c). Emphatic Environment and the Grandiose Self. (In M. Elson. (Ed.), The Kohut Seminars: on self psychology and psychotherapy with adolescents and young adults (pp.47-60). USK.
  • Kohut, H. (1987d). Building Psychic Structure That Regulates Self-Esteem. In M. Elson. (Ed.), The Kohut Seminars: on self psychology and psychotherapy with adolescents and young adults (pp.61-76). USK.
  • Kohut, H. (1987e). The Admiring Selfobject and the Idealized Selfobject. In M. Elson. (Ed.), The Kohut Seminars: on self psychology and psychotherapy with adolescents and young adults (pp.77-94). USK.
  • Kohut, H. (1987f). The Acquisition of Internalized Values, Ideals, and Goals. In M. Elson. (Ed.), The Kohut Seminars: on self psychology and psychotherapy with adolescents and young adults (pp.95-109). USK.
  • Lee, R.R., Martin, J.C. (1991). Psychotherapy After Kohut, A Textbook of Self Psychology. New York: Hillsdale.
  • Mitchell, J. (2011). Kardeşler: Cinsellik ve Şiddet (P. Padar, Çev. & B.C. Yılmazyiğit). İstanbul: Bilgi Ünv. (Original work published 1940).
  • Mitchell, S.K., Black, M.K. (2012). Freud ve Sonrası, Modern Psikanalitik Düşüncenin Tarihi (K. Eğrilmez, Çev.). İstanbul: Bilgi Ünv. (Original work published 1995).
  • Philips, T. (2011). Mirroring and What Happens Next. International Journal of Psychoanalytic Self Psychology, 6, 50–57.
  • Winnicott, D.W. (1977). The Piggle. London: The Hogarth Press.
  • Togashi, K. (2009). A New Dimension of Twinship Selfobject Experience and Transference. International Journal of Psychoanalytic Self Psychology, 4, 21–39.
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Primary Language Turkish
Subjects Psychology
Other ID JA97EA66YP
Journal Section Research Article
Authors

Sema Yurduşen

Publication Date June 1, 2015
Submission Date February 24, 2015
Acceptance Date May 16, 2015
Published in Issue Year 2015

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APA Yurduşen, S. (2015). Ebeveyn Kaybı Ve Kardeş Doğumunun Kendilik Psikolojisi Üzerine Etkisi. AYNA Klinik Psikoloji Dergisi, 2(2), 1-12. https://doi.org/10.31682/ayna.470666