Kadınların Boşanma Sonrası Yaşama Uyum Deneyimleri: Nitel Bir Çalışma

Yıl 2022, Cilt: 22 Sayı: 2, 405 - 434, 27.06.2022

Nilüfer Uyar , İbrahim Yıldırım

https://doi.org/10.18037/ausbd.1136314

Cited By: 3

Öz

Bu çalışmada kadınların boşanma sonrası yaşama uyum deneyimlerinin ve öznel algılarının uyum düzeyleriyle ilişkisinin nitel olarak değerlendirilmesi amaçlanmıştır. Araştırmacı, resmi boşanmasının üzerinden en fazla iki yıl geçen ve çocuk velayetini alan 12 kadınla yüz yüze görüşmeler yapmıştır. Bu görüşmelerde yarı yapılandırılmış görüşme formu kullanılmış ve görüşmeler yaklaşık bir saat sürmüştür. Araştırma sonucunda boşanma sonrası yaşama uyum ile ilgili altı kapsayıcı tema ortaya çıkmıştır. Bunlar; (a) Boşanma sonrası yaşamda yeni roller ve ilişkiler (b) Boşanma ve boşanma sonrası yaşamla ilgili tutum (c) Eski eşle devam eden ilişkiler (d) Sosyal destek algısı (e) Sosyal işlevsellik (f) Kendilik algısıdır. Araştırmanın sonuçları, boşanmış kadınların yeni bir yaşam kurma sürecinde çocuklarla, eski eşle ve yakın çevreyle ilişkiler-sınırlar-yeni roller, boşanma ve boşanma sonrası yaşama yüklenilen anlam ve romantik ilişkiler gibi alanlarda desteklenmeleri gerektiğinin önemine işaret etmektedir.

Anahtar Kelimeler

Boşanmış Kadınlar, Boşanma Sonrası Yaşama Uyum, Nitel Çalışma

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