Communication about Sexuality between Mothers and Their Adolescent Children: Mothers’ Perspective

Yıl 2010, Cilt: 12 Sayı: 2, 39 - 50, 01.08.2010

Belgin Akın Emel Ege Çiğdem Arıkan Dane Bursa Nesime Demirören

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Objective: The aim of the study is to examine the communication about sexuality between mothers and their adolescent children according to the view of mothers. Methods: This is a descriptive study. The study was carried out in three primary health care centers in a city where is the Central Anatolia. The study group was 273 women who applied to the centers for using services and have boys and girls between ages 14-17. A questionnaire that questions the socio-demographic characteristics of mothers and their talking about sexual issues with their children and frequency of talking and talking subjects was used to collect data. The data were collected by researchers with face-to-face interview in centers. Logistic regression analyze was used for statistical analyses. Results: It was find out that there was a limited sexual communication between mothers and their children, they were not very comfortable in communication about sexual issues and the most frequent talking topics were about growing and most infrequent ones were about sexual intercourse. The most important factors for not talking about sexual issues were young age of mothers, having boy, living in extended family, low level of socioeconomic status and low level of education of their own and husband, thinking that sexual education was not necessary and perceived their sexual knowledge was not sufficient. Conclusions: It seems important that nurses should evaluate the view of the parents about sexuality and follow-up the families and adolescents who are in risk groups closer.

Anahtar Kelimeler

Sexual communication, adolescent, mother

ANNELER VE ADOLESAN ÇOCUKLARI ARASINDA CİNSELLİK KONUSUNDA İLETİŞİM: ANNELERİN BAKIŞ AÇISI

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Amaç: Çalışmanın amacı anneler ve adolesan çocukları arasında cinsellikle ilgili iletişimi annelerin bakış açısı ile incelemektir. Yöntem: Tanımlayıcı bir çalışmadır. İç Anadolu Bölgesi’ndeki bir ilde bulunan üç sağlık ocağı bölgesinde çalışılmıştır. Araştırmanın örneğini sağlıkocağına hizmet almak amacı ile başvuran 14-17 yaş arası kız/erkek çocuğubulunan 273 anne oluşturmuştur. Verilerin toplanmasında annelerin sosyodemografik özellikleri, cinsellik konusunda çocukları ile konuşma durumu,sıklığı ve konuşma konularını sorgulayan bir anket formu kullanılmıştır.Araştırma verileri sağlık ocağında yüzü yüze görüşülerek araştırmacılar tarafından toplanmıştır. İstatistiksel analizde Logistik regresyon analizi yönteminden yararlanılmıştır. Bulgular: Anneler ve çocukları arasında cinsellik konusunda sınırlı düzeydebir iletişim olduğu ve iletişimde çok rahat olmadıkları ve sık konuşulan konuların büyüme gelişme ile ilgili ve en az konuşulanların cinsel ilişki ile ilgili olduğu bulunmuştur. Cinsellik konusunda konuşmama konusundakiönemli faktörlerin annenin yaşının genç olması, erkek çocuğu sahip olması,geniş ailede yaşaması, sosyoekonomik düzeyinin, eşi ve kendisinin eğitimdüzeyinin düşük olması, cinsel sağlık eğitiminin gerekli olmadığını düşünmesi ve yeterli bilgiye sahip olmamasıdır. Sonuç: Hemşirelerin ailelerin cinsellik konusuna bakış açılarını değerlendirmeleri ve özellikle risk grubunda yer alan anneler ve adolesan çocuklarını daha yakından izlemeleri önemli görünmektedir

Anahtar Kelimeler

Cinsellikle ilgili iletişim, adolesan, anne

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