Aile İçi Şiddetin Bir Türü: Kardeş İstismarı

Abstract

Kardeş ilişkisi sevgi ve sıcaklığın yanı sıra çatışma ve rekabet olarak da tanımlanan, bireylerin yaşamlarındaki en uzun süreli ilişkilerden biridir. Bu uzun süreli ilişki bireylerin gelişimleri üzerinde oldukça güçlü bir etkiye sahiptir. Yaşanan uyumlu kardeş ilişkilerinin bireyin gelişimine katkısı ne kadar fazlaysa, uyumsuz kardeş ilişkisinin bireyde oluşturduğu zarar da bir o kadar fazladır. Ne yazık ki kardeş ilişkilerinde yaşanan çatışma, saldırganlık ve şiddet gibi durumlar bazı aileler tarafından gelişimin normal bir parçası olarak görülmekte, bu durum kardeşler arasında meydana gelen davranışın istismar olarak görülmesini güçleştirmektedir. Bu süreçte önemli olan hangi davranışların normal, hangilerinin istismar kabul edileceğidir. Bu makalede kardeş istismarının tanımına ve türlerine değinerek, konu ile ilgili farkındalığı artırmak amaçlanmıştır.

Keywords

• Kardeş istismarı,fiziksel istismar,duygusal istismar

A Type of Domestic Violence: Sibling Abuse

Abstract

Sibling relationship which is defined as conflict and competition as well as love and warmth, is one of the most long-term relationships in the lives of individuals. This long-term relationship has a quite strong effect on the development of individuals. Experienced compatible sibling relationships the greater contribution to the development of the individual, discordant sibling relationship that causes just as much demage in the individuals. Unfortunately, experienced cases such as conflict, aggression and violence in the sibling relationship are seen as a normal part of development by some families, this (situation) makes it more difficult to be seen as abuse the behaviour that occured between siblings. In this process the important one (thing), which behaviour will be accepted normal and which ones will be accepted as abuse. In this article intended to increase awareness about the subject referring to the definition and types of sibling abuse.

Keywords

• Sibling abuse,physical abuse,emotional abuse

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