Predictors of Relationship Satisfaction in the Premarital Period: An Analysis of Personality, Family, Relationship, and Cultural Dynamics with "Before I Do"

Year 2025, Volume: 15 Issue: 77, 313 - 324, 30.06.2025

Sinem Kocadayı Erbiçer , İbrahim Yıldırım

https://doi.org/10.17066/tpdrd.1488711

Abstract

This study aims to examine the effect of personality dynamics, family background, couple interactions, and cultural factors on relationship satisfaction among 308 young adults in Türkiye who have decided to marry. Data were collected using the Comprehensive Premarital Assessment Scale Battery (Before I Do) and the Relationship Satisfaction Scale. The relationships between various dynamics and relationship satisfaction were analyzed, including personality dynamics (emotional stability, empathy, openness, self-esteem, secure attachment), family dynamics (family closeness, parental marital relationship, family-partner relationships), relationship dynamics (harmony and cooperation, relationship challenges), and cultural dynamics (religious belief, lifestyle, traditions, marriage preparation). Hierarchical multiple regression analysis was performed to determine the predictive power of these variables on relationship satisfaction. The analyses revealed that personality dynamics explained 36% of the variance in relationship satisfaction, family dynamics accounted for 46%, relationship dynamics contributed 52%, and the inclusion of cultural dynamics increased the explanatory power to 56%. These results enhance the understanding of factors contributing to relationship satisfaction. By addressing these comprehensive dynamics, premarital programs may better prepare couples for marriage and lead to more satisfying relationship outcomes.

Keywords

relationship satisfaction, premarital predictors, personality dynamics, family dynamics, relationship dynamics, cultural dynamics

Ethical Statement

This study is a part of the first author's doctoral dissertation, which was conducted under the supervision of the second author. This research was carried out within the scope of The Scientific and Technological Research Council of Turkey (TUBITAK 2214-A).

Supporting Institution

The Scientific and Technological Research Council of Turkey (TUBITAK)

Project Number

TÜBİTAK (2214-A)

Thanks

The authors extend their gratitude to TUBITAK for their support.

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