RUHSAL TRAVMANIN AKTARIMINDA NARSİSİZM

Öz

    Narsisizm terimi Yunan mitolojisinde, sudaki yansımasını görüp kendine âşık olan ve bu doyumsuz aşkın

sonucunda ölen Narkissos’un hikâyesinden doğmuş ve psikanalitik kuramın önemli bir noktasına yerleşerek

psikoloji literatüründeki yerini almıştır. Narsisizmle ilgili çalışmalar bu narsisistik çekirdeğin oluşumunda

bakım verenden görülen duygusal ihmalin altını çizmektedir. Narsisizmin doğuşunda bu travmatik yaşantı

yatmaktadır. Bu yazı literatürde travmanın aktarımında narsisizm meselesini, narsisistlerin başkalarından

üstün olduklarına ve onları kontrol etmeye hakları olduğuna dair grandiyöz inançları, hayal kırıklığına karşı

tahammülsüzlükleri ve diğer insanların ihtiyaçlarını önemsememeleri ile birleşince hayatlarındaki diğer

bireylere de kendi travmatik yaşantılarının benzerlerini aktarıp aktarmadıklarına dair bulgular temelinde,

özellikle ilişkiler ve adlî süreçler ışığında ele almayı amaçlamaktadır.

Anahtar Kelimeler

• travma,narsisizm,travmanın aktarımı,duygusal manipülasyon,suç davranışı

NARCISSISM IN THE TRANSMISSION OF PSYCHOLOGICAL TRAUMA

Öz

    The term “narcissism” is based on the story of Narcissus in Greek Mythology, who fell in love with his own

reflection after seeing it in a pond and died as a result of this insatiable love. Narcissism have taken a significant

place within the psychoanalytical theory and thus have been introduced to the psychology literature. Researches

on narcissism underline the effect of the emotional neglect experienced from the caregiver in the emerge of the

narcissistic core. This traumatic experience underlies the origin of narcissism. This study aims to review the

issue of the role of narcissism in the transmission of trauma especially in the light of relationships and forensic

proceedings around the question of whether narcissists transfer a similar traumatic experience of their own

when their grandiose beliefs of superiority and control, their intolerance against frustration and their lack of

respect for others’ needs are taken into consideration altogether.

Anahtar Kelimeler

• trauma,narcissism,transmission of trauma,emotional manipulation,criminal behavior

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