ÇEK CUMHURİYETİNDE BİR İLETİŞİM ŞEKLİ OLARAK ALDATMA

Öz

Aldatma yaygın bir iletişim şeklidir ve yabacı araştırmacılara göre insanların yüzde 90 ’ından daha fazlası bazen yalan söylediğini kabul eder. Yalan sayısı günde 1 kez veya 10 dakikalık bir sohbette 1 ila 2 kez olduğu belirtilir. Sonuçlar çoğunlukla ABD’de yapılan çalışmalardan alındığı için, biz bu çalışmada Çek Cumhuriyeti’nde “aldatma” konusunu değerlendirdik ve bulgularımızı Amerika’daki çalışmalar ile kıyasladık. 112 kişiden bilgi almak üzere online bir anket kullandık. Bir SPSS analizi, yanıt verenlerin yüzde 100 yalan söylediğini ve erkeklerin kadınlara oranla yalan söylemeye daha yatkın olduğunu gösterdi.

Yabancı araştırmacıların bulgularına göre benzer olarak, katılımcıların aksine, bu çalışmada erkeklerin yakın bir arkadaşını korumak için kadınlarınsa başkalarından faydalanmak için yalan söylediği gözlendi. Katılımcıların yüzde 75’ine göre çocuklara, yüzde 97’sine göre ise yabancılara yalan söylemenin daha kolay olduğu saptandı.

Anahtar Kelimeler

• aldatma,yalan,iletişim,yalan söyleme,Çek Cumhuriyeti,Kültürlerarası farklılıklar

Deception as a Form of Communication in the Czech Republic

Öz

Deception is a wide-spread form of communication and according to foreign researches, more than 90 % of people admit to lie at least sometimes, with the number of lies varying between 1 a day to 1 or 2 in every 10 minute-long conversation. As those results come mostly from the USA studies, we addressed deception in the Czech Republic and compared our results with those from American studies. We used an on- line questionnaire to collect data from 112 respondents. An SPSS analysis showed that 100 % of respondents lied at least sometimes with men admitting more lies than women. Similar to foreign researches respondents most frequently lie about their relationships, incomes and work or education successes. Men would more probably lie to protect a close person, women lie more often to gain advantages from others, which contradicts foreign results. Lying to children is easier for 75 % of respondents and lying to strangers is easier to 97 % of them.

Anahtar Kelimeler

• deception,lie,communication,lying,the Czech Republic,intercultural differences

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