Ebeveynlerde Ortak Ebeveynlik ve Güç Paylaşımı Arasındaki İlişkinin İncelenmesi

Yıl 2023, Cilt: 2 Sayı: 2, 85 - 96, 30.10.2023

Cem Alan , Bekir Çelik

Öz

Bu çalışmada ilkokulda çocuğu olan yetişkinlerin "ortak ebeveynlik ilişkileri" ve "ebeveynler arasındaki güç paylaşımları" arasındaki ilişki incelenmiştir. Bununla birlikte ebeveynlerin ortak ebeveynlik puanları ve ebeveynlerde güç paylaşımı puanları çeşitli demografik değişkenlere göre incelenmiştir. Ayrıca ebeveynlerde güç paylaşımının ortak ebeveynlik düzeylerini yordama gücü de araştırılmıştır. Bu kapsamda Çanakkale ilinde bulunan 295 katılımcıdan demografik bilgi formu, Ortak Ebeveynlik İlişkileri Ölçeği ve Çift İlişkilerinde Güç Paylaşımı Ölçeği kullanılarak veri toplanmıştır. Yapılan analizler sonucunda ortak ebeveynlik ile ebeveynlerde güç paylaşımı arasında istatistiksel olarak anlamlı bir ilişki olduğu bulunmuştur. Ortak ebeveynlik ve ebeveynlerde güç paylaşımının demografik değişkenlere (eğitim durumu, çalışma durumu, gelir düzeyi, çocuk sayısı) bağlı olarak farklılaşmadığı, ortak ebeveynlik ve ebeveynlerde güç paylaşımının ebeveynlerin yaşıyla negatif yönde ve çok zayıf bir ilişkiye sahip olduğu görülmüştür. Ayrıca ebeveynlerde güç paylaşımının ortak ebeveynlik düzeylerini %34.4 oranında açıkladığı görülmüştür. Bulgular ilgili literatür bağlamında tartışılmıştır.

Anahtar Kelimeler

Ebeveynlik, Ortak Ebeveynlik, Ebeveynlerde Güç Paylaşımı, Ebeveynlik İttifakı, İlkokul öğrencisi

Examining the Relationship Between Co-Parenting and Power Sharing in Parents

Öz

This study examined the relationship between "co-parenting relationships" and "power sharing between parents" of adults with children in primary school. In addition, co-parenting scores of parents and power sharing scores of parents were examined according to various demographic variables. In addition, the predictive power of power sharing among parents on co-parenting levels was also investigated. In this context, data were collected from 295 participants in Çanakkale province using demographic information form, Co-Parenting Relationships Scale and Power Sharing in Couple Relationships Scale. As a result of the analyses, it was found that there was a statistically significant relationship between co-parenting and parental power sharing. Co-parenting and parental power sharing did not differ depending on demographic variables (education level, employment status, income level, number of children), and co-parenting and parental power sharing had a negative and very weak relationship with parents' age. In addition, it was seen that power sharing in parents explained 34.4% of shared parenting levels. The findings were discussed in the context of the related literature.

Anahtar Kelimeler

Parenting, Co-Parenting, Power-Sharing in Parents, Parenting Alliance, Primary School Student

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