“Forgetting Oneself”: Humility in Psychology Studies

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Humility has been a neglected virtue in psychology studies for a long time. In recent years, however, a substantial upsurge in the number of studies on humility has been observed. Delving into a relatively limited but promising research area, this review begins by presenting an etymological and conceptual examination on humility. Even though there is no consensus on how to define humility, its difference from other related concepts such as modesty, low self-esteem, and self-depreciation is pointed out. In addition to the discussions on the general structure of humility, the related literature also refers to context-specific forms of humility. Accordingly, the notions of intellectual humility, cultural humility, and relational humility are introduced as the sub-types of humility. Humility eventually entails one’s forgetting oneself. However, such an attribute poses an inconvenience for the measurement of humility by self-report techniques. In a quest of an appropriate method to evaluate humility, the current review also summarizes the different measurement techniques with a comparative focus. Those people who are really humble are expected to more effectively manage the situations in which it is difficult to show humility (e.g., interpersonal conflict, competition, acceptance of criticism). Relatedly, the importance of such stress tests is underlined for the more precise analysis of humble response patterns. The succeeding parts of this review scrutinize the precursors and consequences of humility in the light of existing empirical findings. Religiosity, secure attachment, and other character strengths (e.g., forgiveness, gratitude, and hardiness) are identified as the forerunners of humility. Humility-related outcomes are considered with reference to its restorative impact on psychological health, interpersonal relationships, work life, and societal tolerance. Whether it is possible to promote humility with certain psychological interventions is also considered with an applied perspective. Suggestions for prospective studies are proposed at the end of the current review.

Anahtar Kelimeler

• Humility,humble,modesty,virtue

“Kendini Unutmak”: Psikoloji Araştırmalarında Tevazu

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Tevazu, psikoloji alanındaki çalışmalarda uzun zaman boyunca ihmal edilen bir erdem olmuştur. Ancak son yıllarda, tevazu konusundaki çalışmaların sayısında kayda değer bir artış görülmektedir. Görece sınırlı fakat gelecek vadeden bu araştırma alanına dair kapsamlı bir inceleme yürütülmesi hedeflenerek, bu derleme çalışmasında öncelikli olarak tevazu üzerine etimolojik ve kavramsal bir analiz sunulmuştur. Kavramın nasıl tanımlanacağı konusunda fikir birliği olmamasına rağmen, bu çalışmada tevazunun ölçülülük, düşük benlik saygısı ve kendini değersiz görme gibi diğer ilişkili kavramlardan farkı gözler önüne serilmiştir. İlgili alan yazında tevazunun genel yapısına ilişkin tartışmaların yanı sıra belli bağlamlarda ortaya çıkan tevazu biçimlerinden de bahsedilmektedir. Bu çerçevede tevazunun alt türleri olarak entelektüel tevazu, kültürel tevazu ve ilişkisel tevazu kavramları tanıtılmıştır. Tevazu nihai olarak kişinin kendini unutmasını gerektirir. Ancak bu yönü ile tevazunun öz-bildirime dayalı olarak ölçümlenmesinde ciddi zorluklar yaşanmaktadır. Buradan hareketle, tevazuyu değerlendirmeye yönelik en uygun yöntemin ne olduğu sorusu ekseninde, mevcut derlemede tevazuya ilişkin farklı ölçüm teknikleri karşılaştırılmalı olarak ele alınmıştır. Gerçekten mütevazı kişilerin tevazu göstermenin zor olduğu durumları (kişilerarası çatışma, rekabet, eleştiriyi kabullenme vb.) daha etkili bir şekilde yönetmeleri beklenir. Bu noktada mütevazı tepki örüntülerinin daha hassas bir biçimde incelenmesine yönelik olarak bu tür stres testlerinin önemine dikkat çekilmiştir. Derlemenin takip eden bölümlerinde ise görgül çalışmalar ışığında tevazunun öncülleri ve sonuçlarına değinilmiştir. Bu bağlamda dindarlık, güvenli bağlanma ve diğer karakter güçleri (örn., affedicilik, şükran, yılmazlık) tevazuyu pekiştiren unsurlar olarak değerlendirilmiştir. Tevazunun sonuçları ise psikolojik sağlık, kişilerarası ilişkiler, iş hayatı ve toplumsal hoşgörü üzerindeki olumlu etkilerine atıfta bulunularak gözden geçirilmiştir. Ayrıca, çeşitli psikolojik müdahalelerle insanlara tevazu erdemini kazandırabilmenin mümkün olup olmadığı da uygulamalı bir bakış açısıyla sorgulanmıştır. Derlemenin son bölümünde ise gelecek çalışmalar için öneriler sunulmuştur.

Anahtar Kelimeler

• Tevazu,mütevazı,alçak gönüllülük,erdem

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