Feeling Like Home Again: After Divorce Processes from Different Family Perspective

Yıl 2022, Cilt: 7 Sayı: 2, 55 - 72, 20.01.2023

İlkim Markoç

https://doi.org/10.32568/jfce.1175330

Öz

This study aims to unfold the changing home phenomenon for all family members in the divorce process from different perspectives in the context of feeling like home again. This is a descriptive document review study. The data source of the research consists of articles published and the search made using the keywords divorce, post-divorce parenting, consequences of divorce, home-making practices, and post-divorce sense of belonging. Although the divorce process brings about physical and relational changes in the family structure and hence the home environment, all family members can overcome these painful times with minimum trauma and even have higher well-being than in the pre-divorce period. The children can continue a relationship of love and trust with their parents, and former spouses can withstand the burden brought by divorce much more quickly by feeling like home again.

Anahtar Kelimeler

Home, divorce, Meaning of Home, Post-Seperation Parenting

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