TÜRKİYEDE HELİKOPTER EBEVEYNLİK EĞİLİMİ VE HELİKOPTER EBEVEYNLERİN DEMOGRAFİK ÖZELLİKLERİ

Hasan Yılmaz

doi:10.21560/spcd.v20i54504.540233

TÜRKİYEDE HELİKOPTER EBEVEYNLİK EĞİLİMİ VE HELİKOPTER EBEVEYNLERİN DEMOGRAFİK ÖZELLİKLERİ

Öz

Çocuklarını yetiştirmede tutarsız bir otoriterlik ve aşırı korumacılık karışımıyla bilinen helikopter ebeveynlik tarzı; çocuğun yaşından bağımsız olarak onları kontrol etme ihtiyacı, onlara özerklik vermeme veya sınırlandırma, çocuklarını gerçekten sevmedikleri etkinlikleri yapmaya zorlama, farklı konularda ders aldırma veya başkalarıyla sosyalleşmesinden mahrum etme, akademik sonuçları her şeyden önemli ve öncelikli tutma, çocuklarının yaptıkları her şeyde haklı olduklarını düşünme eğilimi, okul öncesinden üniversiteye kadar her kademede öğretmen ve okul kurullarından sürekli olarak şikayette bulunma davranışlarıyla karakterize bir çocuk yetiştirme yaklaşımıdır.

Yapılan araştırmanın amacı Türkiye’de helikopter ebeveynliğin yaygınlığını hem anne hem baba boyutunda ortaya koymaktır. Bu gelen amaç çerçevesinde anne babaların hangi konularda helikopter ebeveyn tutumlarının daha baskın olduğunun; yaş, cinsiyet, eğitim düzeyi, yerleşim yerinin özelliği gibi demografik değişkenlere göre tespit edilmesi hedeflenmiştir. Araştırmada betimsel tarama yöntemi kullanılmıştır. Bu amaçla Yaşları 11 ile 22 arasında değişen ve ortaokul ile lisans üstü eğitim seviyelerinde öğrenim gören 1600 kişiye Algılanan Helikopter Ebeveyn ölçeği uygulanmıştır. Ebeveynlerinin tutumunu helikopter olarak algılayan 666 katılımcının verileri üzerinde de tanımlayıcı istatistik değerleri, varyans analizi, t testi ve Scheffe test yöntemleri ile analizler yapılmıştır.

Araştırmanın sonunda, Türkiye’de annelerin üçte birinin, babaların ise yedide birinin helikopter ebeveyn tutuma sahip olduğu, annelerin babalara kıyasla daha fazla helikopter tutum sergiledikleri gözlenmiştir. Ortaokulda öğrenci olan katılımcıların algıladıkları helikopter ebeveyn tutumları, diğer eğitim kademelerindeki katılımcılardan yüksek bulunmuştur. Tek çocuklu, büyük şehirlerde yaşayan ebeveynlerde helikopter tutum daha fazla gözlenirken helikopter ebeveyn tutumunun çocukların cinsiyetinden etkilenmediğini de saptanmıştır.

Anahtar Kelimeler

Helikopter ebeveyn tutumları,Helikopter ebeveynlerin özellikleri

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Ayrıntılar

Birincil Dil

Türkçe

Konular

-

Bölüm

Araştırma Makalesi

Yazarlar

Hasan Yılmaz ^*
0000-0002-9069-1524
Türkiye

Yayımlanma Tarihi

26 Mayıs 2020

Gönderilme Tarihi

14 Mart 2019

Kabul Tarihi

26 Mayıs 2020

Yayımlandığı Sayı

Yıl 2020 Cilt: 20 Sayı: 46

DOI

https://doi.org/10.21560/spcd.v20i54504.540233

IZ

https://izlik.org/JA53WE69XT

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APA

Yılmaz, H. (2020). TÜRKİYEDE HELİKOPTER EBEVEYNLİK EĞİLİMİ VE HELİKOPTER EBEVEYNLERİN DEMOGRAFİK ÖZELLİKLERİ. Sosyal Politika Çalışmaları Dergisi, 20(46), 133-160. https://doi.org/10.21560/spcd.v20i54504.540233

AMA

1.Yılmaz H. TÜRKİYEDE HELİKOPTER EBEVEYNLİK EĞİLİMİ VE HELİKOPTER EBEVEYNLERİN DEMOGRAFİK ÖZELLİKLERİ. Sosyal Politika Çalışmaları Dergisi. 2020;20(46):133-160. doi:10.21560/spcd.v20i54504.540233

Chicago

Yılmaz, Hasan. 2020. “TÜRKİYEDE HELİKOPTER EBEVEYNLİK EĞİLİMİ VE HELİKOPTER EBEVEYNLERİN DEMOGRAFİK ÖZELLİKLERİ”. Sosyal Politika Çalışmaları Dergisi 20 (46): 133-60. https://doi.org/10.21560/spcd.v20i54504.540233.

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IEEE

[1]H. Yılmaz, “TÜRKİYEDE HELİKOPTER EBEVEYNLİK EĞİLİMİ VE HELİKOPTER EBEVEYNLERİN DEMOGRAFİK ÖZELLİKLERİ”, Sosyal Politika Çalışmaları Dergisi, c. 20, sy 46, ss. 133–160, May. 2020, doi: 10.21560/spcd.v20i54504.540233.

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Yılmaz, Hasan. “TÜRKİYEDE HELİKOPTER EBEVEYNLİK EĞİLİMİ VE HELİKOPTER EBEVEYNLERİN DEMOGRAFİK ÖZELLİKLERİ”. Sosyal Politika Çalışmaları Dergisi 20/46 (01 Mayıs 2020): 133-160. https://doi.org/10.21560/spcd.v20i54504.540233.

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1.Yılmaz H. TÜRKİYEDE HELİKOPTER EBEVEYNLİK EĞİLİMİ VE HELİKOPTER EBEVEYNLERİN DEMOGRAFİK ÖZELLİKLERİ. Sosyal Politika Çalışmaları Dergisi. 2020;20:133–160.

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Yılmaz, Hasan. “TÜRKİYEDE HELİKOPTER EBEVEYNLİK EĞİLİMİ VE HELİKOPTER EBEVEYNLERİN DEMOGRAFİK ÖZELLİKLERİ”. Sosyal Politika Çalışmaları Dergisi, c. 20, sy 46, Mayıs 2020, ss. 133-60, doi:10.21560/spcd.v20i54504.540233.

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1.Hasan Yılmaz. TÜRKİYEDE HELİKOPTER EBEVEYNLİK EĞİLİMİ VE HELİKOPTER EBEVEYNLERİN DEMOGRAFİK ÖZELLİKLERİ. Sosyal Politika Çalışmaları Dergisi. 01 Mayıs 2020;20(46):133-60. doi:10.21560/spcd.v20i54504.540233