Romantik İlişki İnançlarının Bir Medya Aracı Yardımı ile İncelenmesi: Aşk-ı Memnu Örneği

Year 2026, Volume: 21 Issue: 49, 34 - 54, 24.03.2026

Gökçe Sancak-Aydın , Pakize Urfalı Dadandı

https://doi.org/10.35675/befdergi.1630384

https://izlik.org/JA34WW82KT

Abstract

Medyanın romantik ilişkilerde gerçekçi olmayan inançları beslemede belirleyici ve etkin rolü dikkat çekmektedir. Bu rol dikkate alınarak mevcut çalışmada, medya öğelerinin bir örneği olarak Aşk-ı Memnu eseri incelenmiştir. Bu eser Yetiştirme Kuramı ve Sosyal Öğrenme Kuramı bağlamında ilişkilere olası etkisi ile ele alınmıştır. Çalışma doküman incelemesi yolu ile içerik analizi kullanılarak araştırmacılar tarafından analiz edilmiştir. Analizde kodlama için kullanılan teorik alt yapıda Hatfield ve Walster’ın “tutkulu aşk” ve “arkadaşça aşk” sınıflamasından ve Sprecher ve Metts tarafından sunulan romantik ilişki inançlarına ait açıklamalardan yararlanılmıştır. Eserde yoğun biçimde “tutkulu aşk” tipine ve “yalnız ve tek”, “idealleştirme”, “aşk tüm zorlukların üstesinden gelir” inançlarına rastlanmıştır. Araştırmanın bulguları romantik ilişkilere dair gerçekçi olmayan inançların medya ögelerinde ele alınışı bağlamında tartışılmıştır.

Keywords

Aşk tipleri , medya , romantik ilişki inançları

Examining Romantic Relationship Beliefs with the Help of a Media Tool: The Example of Aşk-ı Memnu

https://izlik.org/JA34WW82KT

Abstract

The media's decisive and effective role in fostering unrealistic beliefs in romantic relationships is noteworthy. Considering this role, the work Aşk-ı Memnu was examined as an example of media elements in the current study. This work was addressed with its possible impact on relationships in the context of accommodation theory and social learning theory. The study was analyzed by the researchers using content analysis through document review. The theoretical infrastructure used for coding in the analysis was the classification of "passionate love" and "companionate love" by Hatfield and Walster, and the romantic relationship beliefs presented by Sprecher and Metts. The type of "passionate love" and the beliefs of "lonely and single", "idealization", and "love overcomes all difficulties" were encountered intensively in the work. The findings of the study were discussed in light of the role of the media in fostering unrealistic beliefs about romantic relationships.

Keywords

Media , romantic relationship beliefs , types of love

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