PSİKOLOJİK ESNEKLİK İLE İLİŞKİ İSTİKRARI ARASINDAKİ İLİŞKİDE ÇATIŞMA ÇÖZÜM STİLLERİNİN ARACI ROLÜ

Abstract

Romantik ilişkiler, yalnızca yakınlık ve aidiyet ihtiyacının karşılanması açısından değil, aynı zamanda psikolojik ve fiziksel iyi oluş üzerinde de belirleyici bir rol oynamaktadır. Çalışmalar, romantik ilişkilerin istikrarını açıklamada bireysel özelliklerin ve çatışma çözme biçimlerinin önemli olduğu vurgulanmaktadır. Bu noktada, bireylerin değişen koşullara uyum sağlayabilme becerisi olarak tanımlanan psikolojik esneklik, sağlıklı ilişki işleyişini destekleyen temel bir kaynak olarak öne çıkmaktadır. Ancak psikolojik esnekliğin ilişki istikrarı ile ilişkisi daha fazla açıklamaya ihtiyaç duymaktadır. Bu araştırma, psikolojik esneklik ile ilişki istikrarı arasındaki ilişkide çatışma çözme tarzlarının aracı rolünü incelemeyi amaçlamaktadır. Araştırmanın örneklemini, 19 ile 50 yaş arası, toplam 391 katılımcı oluşturmuştur. Araştırmanın veri toplama araçları İlişki İstikrarı Ölçeği, Psikolojik Esneklik Ölçeği ve Çatışma Çözüm Stilleri Ölçeğidir. Bulgular, psikolojik esnekliğin ilişki istikrarını pozitif yönde yordadığını, çatışma çözme tarzlarının bu ilişkide aracı rol oynadığını göstermiştir. Bu sonuçlar, romantik ilişki dinamiklerini açıklamada İncinebilirlik Stres Uyum modeli ve Yatırım Modeli çerçevesinde ele alınabilir. Çalışma, psikolojik esnekliğin romantik ilişkilerin sürdürülmesindeki önemini ortaya koyarken, çatışma çözme tarzlarının da bu süreçte kritik işlev gördüğünü göstermektedir. Bulgular, hem kuramsal alanyazına katkı sunmakta hem de klinik psikoloji uygulamaları açısından çift terapilerinde üzerinde durulması gereken önemli değişkenleri işaret etmektedir.

Keywords

• Romantik İlişkiler
• İlişki İstikrarı
• Psikolojik Esneklik
• Çatışma Çözme
• Aracı Model

THE MEDIATING ROLE OF CONFLICT RESOLUTION STYLES IN THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN PSYCHOLOGICAL FLEXIBILITY AND RELATIONSHIP STABILITY

Abstract

Romantic relationships play a decisive role not only in terms of fulfilling the need for belonging and closeness, but also in terms of shaping individuals’ psychological and physical well-being. Research emphasises the importance of individual characteristics and conflict resolution styles in explaining the stability of romantic relationships. At this point, psychological flexibility, defined as the ability of individuals to adapt to changing circumstances, emerges as a fundamental resource that supports healthy relationship functioning. However, the relationship between psychological flexibility and relationship stability needs further explanation. This study aims to examine the mediating role of conflict resolution styles in the relationship between psychological flexibility and relationship stability. The sample for the study consisted of a total of 391 participants aged between 19 and 50. The Relationship Stability Scale, Psychological Flexibility Scale, and Conflict Resolution Style Scale were used as data collection tools. The findings revealed that psychological flexibility positively predicts relationship stability and that conflict resolution styles play a mediating role in this relationship. These results can be discussed within the framework of the Vulnerability Stress Adaptation Model and the Investment Model in explaining romantic relationship dynamics. The research reveals the importance of psychological flexibility in maintaining romantic relationships and shows that conflict resolution styles also play a critical role in this process. The findings contribute to the theoretical literature and point to important variables that should be emphasised in couples therapy in terms of clinical psychology applications.

Keywords

• Romantic Relationships
• Relationship Stability
• Psychological Flexibility
• Conflict Resolution
• Mediation Model

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