Possibilities of Empowerment Through Homemaking

Yıl 2021, Cilt: 27 Sayı: 106 Özel Ek, 52 - 73, 11.10.2021

Ceren Lordoğlu

https://doi.org/10.22559/folklor.1737

Öz

The relationship between space and emotions encompasses a substantial layer
of social life in which they are enacted. This article examines the mutually
constitutive relationship between home and emotions from a feminist
perspective, emphasizing the positive aspects of the foundational and dynamic
relationship between home and emotions rather than the feminist viewpoint
that portrays home as entirely negative for women. To endeavor this, I present
the results of my qualitative research based on a series of in-depth interviews
with two separate groups of 19 women who left their homes and set up new
homes in İstanbul. The research focused on the findings on the role of emotions
in forming relationships with home and the extended domestic material world.
The results indicate that home can be discovered for women not only as a place
of invisible labor, patriarchal oppression, and domestic violence, but also as a
place of empowerment, confidence, and encouragement.

Anahtar Kelimeler

home, emotions, homemaking, domestic material world, women's empowerment

Ev Kurarak Güçlenmenin İmkânları

Öz

Mekân ve duygular arasındaki ilişki sosyal yaşamın farklı bir katmanı hakkında
önemli bilgiler içermektedir. Ancak duyguların, evle ilgili araştırmalarda
inceleme konusu olması henüz çok yenidir. Bu makalede ev ve duygular
arasındaki kurucu ve dinamik ilişki, duygu coğrafyasının ve ilişkisel mekân
yaklaşımının kavramlarıyla tartışılır. Kadınlar arasındaki farklılığın hesaba katılmasıyla,
eleştirel coğrafyacıların ve kültürel antropologların sosyal mekân
çalışmaları bir araya geldiğinde, evi farklı yönleriyle de düşünmek mümkün
olmuştur. Bu noktada evi kadınlar için tümüyle olumsuz ele alan bir feminist
yaklaşım yerine, çoklu ilişkileri ve koşulların mevcudiyetini savunan eleştirel
feminist düşünürlerle benzer bir çizgi benimsenir. İstanbul’da yaşayıp, yeni ev
kurmuş iki farklı gruptan toplam 19 kadınla yaptığım derinlemesine görüşmeye
dayalı alan araştırmasının bulguları makale kapsamında değerlendirilmiştir.
Görüştüğüm kadınların ev ve ev içi maddi dünya ile kurdukları ilişkide duyguların
nasıl bir rolü olduğu ele alınmaktadır. Araştırma bulgularına bağlı olarak
kadınlar için ev, sadece görünmeyen emeğin, patriarkal baskının, ev içi şiddetin
mekânı olarak değil, aynı zamanda olumlu duygularla güçlenebildikleri,
gururlandıkları ve cesaretlendikleri mekân olarak da tartışılmaktadır.

Anahtar Kelimeler

ev, ev kurma, duygular, ev içi maddi dünya, kadınların güçlenmesi

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