Şiddetsiz Karşı Koyma Programının Ebeveynlerin Aile İlişkileri ve Ebeveynlik Algıları Üzerindeki Etkisi

Yıl 2019, Cilt: 45 Sayı: 45, 211 - 233, 03.01.2019

Suat Kılıçarslan , Serdal Ördem Aslı Taltekin Recai Ardıç

Öz

Bu
araştırmanın amacı, ilköğretim ikinci kademede öğrenimlerine devam eden ve
saldırgan davranışları olan çocuklara sahip ebeveynlere yönelik uygulanan
"Şiddetsiz Karşı Koyma" programının ebeveynlerin aile yapısı, aile
etkileşimleri, ebeveyn olarak hissettikleri stres, yetersizlik ve çaresizlik
duyguları üzerindeki etkisini incelemektir. Araştırmanın verileri deney ve
kontrol grubunda yer alan ebeveynlere uygulanan Aile Değerlendirme Ölçeği ve Öznel
Rahatsızlık Birimleri Anketi aracılığıyla elde edilmiştir. Söz konusu ölçekler deney ve
kontrol grubu ebeveynlerine öntest, sontest ve izleme ölçümleri olarak
uygulanmıştır. Araştırma sonuçları, ebeveynlere uygulanan programın aile içi
ilişkilerinde ve etkileşim biçimlerinde pozitif yönde anlamlı değişiklikler
meydana getirdiğini; bununla birlikte ebeveynlerin yaşamış oldukları stres,
yetersizlik ve çaresizlik duyguları ile baş etme düzeyleri üzerinde anlamlı
farklılık oluşturduğunu göstermiştir. Bu sonuçlar ışığında alanda çalışan
psikolojik danışman ve araştırmacıların ‘Şiddetsiz Karşı Koyma’ ebeveyn
programını çocuk ve ergenlerde görülen şiddet ve saldırgan davranışlarla
ebeveynlerin baş etmesi ve aile ilişkilerinin geliştirilmesi konusunda
kullanmalarının yararlı olacağı düşünülmektedir. 

Anahtar Kelimeler

şiddet, saldırganlık, aile ilişkileri, ebeveyn yetersizliği

The Effect of Non-Violent Resistance Program On Family Relationships and Parentship Perceptions of Parents

Öz

The
aim of this study is to examine the Non-violent
Resistance program which is applied to the parents of the children in
secondary level education and show aggressive behavior and its effects of on
the family structure of the parents and their interactions, the stress they
experienced, the inadequacy they felt, and the feelings of helplessness. The
data of the study were obtained through the ‘Family Assessment Scale’ and
‘Subjective Disorders Unit Questionnaire’ applied to the parents in the
experimental and control groups. These scales were applied to the parents of
the experimental and control groups as pre-test, post-test and follow-up
measurements. When the results of the study were examined, it was seen that the
program applied to the parents causes significant changes in the positive
direction on the forms of interaction within the family, and it is seen that
the parents have a meaningful difference on the levels of coping with the
feelings of stress, disability and helplessness. According to these results it
is considered that it will be beneficiary for the psychological counselors and
researchers working in this area to apply Non
Violent Resistance program to deal with violence and aggressive behavior in
children and adolescents and to develop family relations.

Anahtar Kelimeler

violence, aggression, family relationships, parental inadequacy, support

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