An Investigation of the Self-Compassion of University Students in Terms of Attachment Styles and Relationship Status

Yıl 2019, Cilt: 27 Sayı: 3, 1023 - 1032, 15.05.2019

Nur Başer Baykal , Tuba Kalay Usta Hale Nur Kılıç Memur , Ahmet Şirin

https://doi.org/10.24106/kefdergi.2524

Cited By: 2

Öz

The aim of
this study was to reveal the relationship between the self-compassion and attachment
of the university students. It was examined whether the levels of
self-compassion and attachment differ according to the demographic variables.
The research was prepared in a screening model. The study sample group
consisted of 366 university students selected randomly by cluster sampling
method. In this study, Self-Compassion Scale, the Experiences in Close Relationships
Inventory and the personal information form prepared by the researcher was
administrated. According to the findings, it was found that there was a significant
negative correlation between students' self-compassion levels and anxious and
avoidant attachment. On the other hand, self-compassion levels of students
differed according to the relationship status.  

Anahtar Kelimeler

Self-compassion, Attachment, Experiences in Close Relationships, Anxious Attachment, Avoidant Attachment

Üniversite Öğrencilerinin Öz-Anlayışlarının, Bağlanma Stilleri ve İlişki Durumları Bakımından İncelenmesi

Öz

Bu çalışmanın amacı, İstanbul ilindeki çeşitli üniversitelerde
öğrenim gören öğrencilerin öz anlayış düzeyleri ile yakın ilişkilerdeki
bağlanma stilleri arasındaki ilişkiyi ortaya koymaktır. Ayrıca çalışmada, öz
anlayış ve bağlanma düzeylerinin çeşitli demografik durumlara göre farklılaşıp
farklılaşmadığı incelenmiştir. Araştırma ilişkisel tarama modelinde
hazırlanmıştır. Araştırmanın örneklem grubu, tesadüfi oranlı küme örnekleme
yöntemiyle seçilen 366 üniversite öğrencisidir. Araştırmada, Öz Anlayış Ölçeği,
Yakın İlişkilerde Yaşantılar Envanteri ve araştırmacının hazırladığı kişisel
bilgi formu kullanılmıştır. Yapılan araştırma sonucunda öğrencilerin öz anlayış
düzeyleri ile kaygılı ve kaçınmalı bağlanma stilleri arasında negatif yönde
anlamlı bir ilişki bulunmuştur. Ayrıca, ilişki durumuna göre kişilerin öz
anlayış düzeyleri farklılık göstermiştir.

Anahtar Kelimeler

öz anlayış, bağlanma, yakın ilişkilerde yaşantılar, kaygılı bağ-lanma, kaçınmalı bağlanma

Kaynakça

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