A New Concept: Helicopter Parenting

Yıl 2020, , 163 - 168, 30.09.2020

Seda Çetin Avcı , Duygu Güleç

https://doi.org/10.38108/ouhcd.738884

Cited By: 6

Öz

How much they belong to society as a result of identity formation of individuals is closely related to their parents' behaviors and attitudes. Parenting plays a key role in healthy child rearing. Because the personality development of each individual is based on childhood. Parents' attitudes towards their children have important effects on the development of all areas of their children. Today, there are many parenting concepts such as democratic, authoritarian and permissive parental attitude. In addition to these concepts, the concept of helicopter parenting, a new concept in the literature, has emerged. The concept of helicopter parenting is a concept that not only affects the mother, father and the child instantly, but also affects every moment of the child's entire life. Although the expectations and intentions of the parents who exhibit this attitude are good, this attitude has been reported to have negative effects on children. The aim of this review is to define the concept of helicopter parenting, which is a new concept in the literature, to explain the characteristics of parents and the effects of this parenting on family and child health and the responsibilities of the nurse.

Anahtar Kelimeler

Helicopter parenting, parenting, nursing

Yeni Bir Kavram: Helikopter Ebeveynlik

Öz

Bireylerin kimlik oluşumu sonucunda kendilerini topluma ne kadar ait hissedecekleri ebeveynlerinin kendilerine yönelik davranış ve tutumlarıyla yakından alakalıdır. Ebeveynlik sağlıklı çocuk yetiştirmede anahtar role sahiptir. Çünkü her bireyin kişilik gelişimi çocukluk döneminde temel almaktadır. Ebeveynlerin çocuklarına karşı olan tutumlarının çocuklarının tüm alanlarının gelişimi üzerinde önemli etkileri vardır. Günümüzde demokratik, otoriter ve izin verici ebeveyn tutumu gibi birçok ebeveynlik kavramları bulunmaktadır. Bu kavramlara ek olarak literatürde yeni bir kavram olan helikopter ebeveynlik kavramı gündeme gelmiştir. Helikopter ebeveynlik kavramı anne, baba ve çocuğu anlık etkilemek ile kalmayıp; çocuğun bütün hayatı boyunca her anına etkileri olan bir kavramdır. Bu tutumu sergileyen anne babaların beklentileri, niyetleri iyi olsa da, bu tutumun çocuklar üzerine olumsuz etkileri olduğu bildirilmiştir. Bu derlemenin amacı literatürde yeni bir kavram olan helikopter ebeveynlik kavramını tanımlamak, ebeveynlerin özelliklerini ve bu ebeveynliğin aile ve çocuk sağlığı üzerine etkilerini ve hemşirenin sorumluluklarını açıklamaktır.

Anahtar Kelimeler

helikopter ebeveynlik, ebeveynlik, hemşirelik

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