İLETİŞİMDE ve İLİŞKİLERDE PHUBBİNG

Öz

Modern yaşamla paralel olarak gelişen teknoloji hayatımızın önemli bir parçasına dönüşmüştür. Teknolojinin sağladığı pek çok kolaylıktan biri de iletişimi hızlandırmasıdır. İletişimde kaçınılmaz olarak kullandığımız en önemli teknolojik keşif de telefonlarımızdır. Telefonlar hayatımızı hem olumlu hem de olumsuz yönde etkilemiştir. Fakat olumsuzluklara fazla dikkat etmiyoruz. Özellikle akıllı telefonların kullanımıyla birlikte problemli telefon kullanımı da kendini göstermiştir. İnternet ve diğer uygulamalar telefona bağımlılığı artırmıştır. Bu kötüye kullanım da sosyal ilişkilerimize zarar vermektedir. Bu durumun sonucu olarak phubbing diye adlandırdığımız yanlış bir davranış ortaya çıkmıştır. Başkalarını umursamadan telefonuyla ilgilenmek diye tanımlanan bu davranış önemli bir soruna dönüşmüştür. Günlük yaşamımızda ise sosyal kabalık şeklinde kendini göstermektedir. Özellikle gençler arasında daha yaygın olarak kendini göstermekte ve sosyal ilişkilerin kalitesini düşürmektedir. İş, aile ve arkadaş gibi iletişim halinde olduğumuz insanlarla olan iletişimimizi olumsuz olarak etkilemektedir. Kişisel bir problem olmaktan çıkıp global bir soruna dönüşmüştür. Phubbingin gelecekte daha büyük tehlikeler oluşturma ihtimali vardır. Bu nedenle phubbing ve ortaya çıkaracağı sorunlarla ilgili gerekli tedbirle alınmalı ve insanlar bilinçlendirilmelidir.

Anahtar Kelimeler

• Phubbing,İletişim,İlişki

Kaynakça

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